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“I have been so busy, with work, holidays
approaching, and our weekend trip out of town, that all I have been
thinking is what needs to be done and rushing around. Then among me
running around, I saw John teaching our five-year-old girl how to
weatherproof her boots, in preparation for our trip. I never even
thought of weatherproofing her boots to keep her feet dry and warm. I
saw him, he had patience, not even making a big deal out of it, and yet
praising her for doing such a great job. I suddenly realized how
fortunate I was to have a man like him in my life that I immediately
went over and put my arms around him to say how much I appreciate him”. |

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Remember to recognize what you truly love in your relationship rather
than taking it for granted. You can do this by taking one day each week
to begin, say every Sunday, by reminding yourself on what is so great
about the person you are with. Your partner has chosen you to share their life with, above all other
people. By
practicing this type of gratitude in your relationship, focusing on what
you appreciate about he other person, will make them feel appreciated
and you will receive appreciation in return. (M.J. Ryan, Attitudes of Gratitude in
Love (2002).
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